We live in a society where everybody has to have the perfect body. People make it seem like you have to have a flat stomach big but, big boobs, no stretch marks, and no cellulite to wear whatever you want.
Skinny girls or “slim thick,” girls are the only females who can pull off everything. When women with curves try to wear certain things they get ” the side eye ” like what are you doing you can’t wear that ”! Or ” Your body is not made for that.” First of all yes you can! You don’t have to be a size 5 to look good. You have to be more cautious.
Curvy women are always being put down. Yes now people are praising thick women, but even still there are limitations on it. Yes, you can have hips and ass, but people still expect you not to have any belly fat. If you do, then you are considered fat. So regardless thick women are again body shamed. The sad part about it is that curvy women receive the shame, not by men but by other women.
So many females feel uncomfortable wearing certain clothes because they do not want other women criticizing them and making them feel insecure about their body. Even though it’s nothing wrong with it, women are made to feel this way.
It is even harder now to buy clothes because clothes are skimpy as hell. The stores that have the latest trends mainly sale short shorts bralettes and crop tops. Half the time finding an outfit that does not expose your whole body is one of the hardest parts.
When you do find something you like, you might second guess yourself of getting it because you feel you don’t have the body for it.
In reality, there’s something out there for everybody. You have to know your body!
Once you know your body, you know what brings out your curves and what doesn’t.
If You Have Big Boobs.
When you have a big bust area, your breast is going to take up 90% of the shirt. If you see a crop top shirt that you like, you can get it, but you have to be mindful of your breast. Your Brest is going to cause the top to be smaller automatically. Make sure you go up a size or two sizes that way you do not have everything hanging out. ( boobs and stomach )
If You Have A Big Butt.
When you have a big butt, your shorts and your skirts are automatically going to rise. You do not want your ass hanging out of your shorts that is not cute. You can buy your shorts and skirts a size or two up. Don’t worry about it looking baggy 9/10 it won’t. Your but is going to suck most of it up anyways, so it will look perfect, and you will be comfortable. Also, keep in mind when you go up a pants size you will have room around the waistline. You can use that space to pull your pants up and create a high waist look. So If you have on a crop top, the shirt and pants will meet, which will reveal the perfect amount of skin. There won’t be too much or too little, and you can look fashionable and classy. You can be cute thick and classy.I know for me I have a big butt, a small bust area, and a small waist. However, my stomach pokes out a little bit. I buy all my bottoms two sizes up, and my crop tops are one size up.
( I got this top for $10.00 on eBay).
Tight Clothes Are A NO NO!
Keep in mind that when you wear tight pants, it will push everything out, which will make you bigger than you actually, or it will cause you to look sloppy. It doesn’t matter what size you are overly tight clothes can make a massive difference in how your body looks. When you wear shorts or pants that are too tight your stomach and love handle will fall over your pants, which creates fat and rolls that are not there. When you provide yourself with room and fitted or loose pants your stomach is not laying over your pants, which creates a more slim and elegant look.