School? Is it Important? What Did School Do For Me?

Now of days people question the importance of school. A lot of students in high school are on the fence about what they plan to do once they graduate. College is such a controversial topic. So many people question is college worth it?  Some people say ”If you want to have a good career job and make good money, then you should go to school.”  Then you have some people that think college is a waste of time. Many alumni will admit that you can have a ton of degrees and can still face unemployment. 

Q: So Is It Worth it?  I see it from both sides. However, I believe it depends on your reason for going to college. If you’re only going to school because you want the outcome of making money, then it may not be worth it. But if you go to school to educate yourself and follow your passions, then it is worth it.  There are so many things that college has to offer. Here’s an article that mentions the importance of school.  10 Reasons Why You Should Go to College – Besides Just Getting a High-Paying Job  A: You determine your college experience.  When I first enrolled in school, I can’t lie I was only going for the money. I went to school to become a Paralegal. My senior year is when I knew it was not for me.   However, as time went on, I  begin to connect with my passions, which made me feel that my experience was still worth it. I discuss the struggles that I faced after I graduated in a previous post. I Got My Degree Now What?

College Brought Out The Best In Me.

 I took up so many different subjects I begin to love college.  I believe I was in the right place at the right time. When I enrolled in school, I just got out of a very toxic relationship. When it was time to register, I registered for my classes late, so my options were limited. I almost ended up with three courses, but ironically my fourth class turned out to to be a writing course. This writing course was not an ordinary writing course. It turned out to be women studies writing course.  

My Academics Was Relevant To My Personal life.

I knew there was a reason I was in this class. I began to see the struggles and the powers that women held, which caused me to have more respect for myself as well as other women. It made me realize never to allow myself to be a victim of mental and verbal abuse. I took the time away from dating and spent time loving and catering to myself. I still have my struggles especially when I am venerable. However, I am more aware of my worth as a woman. I try to push women to be more independent and to engage in self-care as much as I can. This class had a significant impact on how I am today.   Outside of this class, other courses affected my growth. I was required to take Political Science, Psychology, and Sociology. Since these were the main courses needed for my major, I ended up absorbing beneficial information.

 

 

The Courses That Impacted Me.

Political Science I have never paid attention to politics. Ironically when I started learning about it was the same year as the election. The first time I went to vote, I will admit that I did not know anything. I chose my vote based on what my family told me. When it was time to vote again, I had way more knowledge and was way more confident about voting. I understand the importance of politics and how it affects my life as well as our world. Once I realized this, I begin taking it seriously. 

 Psychology I enjoy Psychology not only did reveal the importance of mental health but,  It also taught me the different factors that contribute to people actions. I was always good at giving advice and being there for others, but I am now able to give others advice based on their unique situation. I can be around a person and observe their pain and struggles, without being told. 

Sociology  I fell in love with Sociology. Sociology made me realize more about different groups of people.  This class helped me connect with people that were outside of my race, social class, etc. I learned that every Class and every race has their barriers. I had to learn how to be less bias and see things from every angle. Being that I am a minority I also was able to sympathize with my classmates and professors that were also minorities as well. In class, we held debates about controversial topics, such as gender discrimination, sexual orientation discrimination, issues with poverty, homelessness, and Jim Crow Laws. This class was diverse which, made it genuine. We all learned about each other cultures, and backgrounds.

Hidden Lessons.

Outside of the content itself, the overall structure of school was very beneficial. Since college requires you to follow deadlines, This helped me become well-structured.  I had to stay organized to keep track of all of my deadlines. I had to learn how to multitask and balance my classes, my social life, and work. Having professors that were strick and stern forced me to give my all in my work.  Being that I had so much to take on I barely had time to sleep. I had to stay up all hours of the night to get my school work done.

How I Applied  School To Reality.

School taught me that when you want to accomplish your goals, sometimes you may have to sacrifice things to get it. I had to sacrifice my sleep and my social life to maintain my grades. My college has taught me so much that even if I do not end up in a career that pays me six figures, right away I have learned skills that will are needed in life to be successful. College gave me all the tools and strength to do anything. The lessons that I learned is worth more than any job can pay me. Thank You Rutgers University!

Sincerely,

Rutgers Camden Alumni

 Class of 2018.

 

 

 

 

Outside of me doing this for myself. I Also did for my siblings; they motivate me to be better. ( Missing a few )