Asking people for a favor sometimes can be a dreadful experience. Especially because most of us don’t like hearing the word “no”. And when it’s something that you really want, hearing no is not ideal. Even if the person has a valid reason as to why they’ve said no it’s still discouraging to hear. But just imagine how much worse you would feel if you had to get down on your hands and knees and beg for a person to say yes. Yeah, you may feel good at the moment that you got what you want. But when you look back are you going to feel good knowing you had to beg and plead to get it? I know some people probably wouldn’t even go as far as fixing their mouth to beg someone for anything. Whereas some people feel that begging is what is needed to be done sometimes in order to get what you need. To each its own, but I believe begging is so degrading. When you have to go to that extent to get what you need, your placing your power in the hands of another person.
It’s like you’re telling that person that you don’t think there’s any other way for you to get your needs met unless they’re are the ones doing it for you.
That’s too much power to give another person. Because In reality, it may seem like that may be the only person that can present you with the opportunity you desire. But is that really the case? Or is your mind closed off to the other opportunities that await you? Realistically there are billions of people in this world. So why let ONE person, ONE place, or ONE opportunity to make you feel the need to beg? If one person tells you no, you have a good shot of hearing yes elsewhere. It’s just a matter of knowing you are worthy of getting what you want. When you know your worth. Trust me, when you know what you are capable of you won’t even think twice to convince anyone. Especially the things that you know belong to you. When you know you have the qualifications, the talent, etc. You know that it’s only a matter of time before you hear a “ yes”.
At times we want what we want so bad we beg.
When you beg it might seem like the right thing to do. However, most people fail to see that the opportunities we want are waiting for us. The problem is that most people don’t see it that way. We get scared that if we don’t take an opportunity it may never come again so we beg, we plead, we convince we do all that low vibrational things out of fear. That fear causes our vision to be blurred. Because in reality, you will get what you deserve in the end. It could be a promotion, a new job, a relationship. Whatever you want you can have without having to beg for it. There’s a job right now that will pay you the rate and benefits that you want. And you could get those things without having to ask more than once. You can simply walk in front of an employer and drop your resume down and they will be willing to give you exactly what you want without thinking twice about it. You won’t have to persuade or beg your boss every few years to give you a raise. There’s a company right now looking to give you what you want.
I promise you there is a person right now that is willing to worship the ground you walk on without you having to beg or convince them why they should.
There are people who see your worth the moment you step into their presence. So my question is why beg? Perhaps the generations before us did not do the best job in teaching us to stand tall on our worth. Many of us were taught to “ beg “ or “ wait things out until it gets better “. It’s wrong to tell people to wait around on people or places that are more than likely incapable of fulfilling one’s needs. We need to normalize that settling is a form of trauma that we do not have to take on. I think it’s time we normalize the fact that we were put in this world to experience life. That it’s okay to let go of things that are not working for you. It’s okay to explore your options to get the best opportunity that will work for you.
Normalize letting go of “ just good enough “ opportunities in fear of not getting what you really want. If there’s something right now that you really want, whatever it is just know you will have it. Keep it in your mind you will have it, build your courage and confidence and go after it. if you are unsure how to build your confidence here’s something that may help you.
Self-Love and Self Confidence Boost. This exercise is a daily exercise designed to boost one’s self-esteem and self-worth. All in all whatever you do decide to do just make sure you what you have to do to step into your power…
Reach for the stars but don’t ever beg. You’re worth more than that.
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That would really depend on the context, begging a lover to stay with you is a no win situation. However, in some contexts, people result to begging because it’s the best option they have left to them. If you need to beg to help pay your vent, to eat, etc. then do what you have to do. Context is key, because life is rarely black and white.
There’s also nothing wrong with asking for help, it can often lead to deeper and more meaningful relationships if done right, again, based on the context. If you don’t feel like you can ask your loved ones for help, then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationships
I understand and respect your perspective. I don’t feel like I can’t ask for help. But there’s a thin line between asking for help and begging . When I speak on the lines of begging I’m saying in the sense of , don’t ever feel like you have to rely on one source to get what you need because there’s always another opportunity. The purpose is to let people know not to stay stuck and never settle. If I were looking for a pay increase and then company I work for is not in the position to do so because of budget reasons , then I would look for another job that could give me that. I wouldn’t go to my manger everyday asking for a raise or stick it out when they made it clear the possibility is slim to none. I would find a place that is in the position to give me what I need. That’s in any dynamic. Always aim high. ✨