Why Men Love Bitches Book Review.

 

Why Men Love Bitches Written By New York Times Bestselling Author Sherry Argov delivers a unique perspective for women who are looking to enhance their love life. Filled with answers to the typical questions and concerns that many women have. The author explains  the following : Why are men romantic first , and then change? What causes a man to lose interest ? Why do men take nice girls for granted?  This “ no nonsense guide “ is far from the typical men-blaming advice that you are likely to hear from your friends.  With this book be prepared to hold yourself accountable.

Be ready to swallow the tough pill  that you are somewhat responsible for the interactions that you experience with men. 

It’s not to say that you are not good enough. In fact, Sherry Argov explains that women can be “ A Catch , The It Girl” and still fail to get the love and respect they deserve. Merely because women are too afraid to make their standards a priority.  Argov emphasizes that the way to change the dynamic of the game begins; when women stop being nice and start behaving as a “bitch”.  “ Why Men Love Bitches “ explains why a strong woman is more attractive and desirable than a woman who allows a man to walk all over her.

The blunt and striking title is a way for women to take the derogatory term “ Bitch” as a sense of empowerment.

A new profound way for women to feel confident and strong enough to solely engage in relationships that are a representation of what she deserves. After reading this book be prepared to cringe at the crippling behaviors you endured in relationships. The aspects that cause men to go from prince charming to careless. Sherry has a way of bringing light to the desperate behaviors women partake in to get and keep a man. She refers to the moments where women  found themselves accommodating their time, wants and standards to display their  interest.  Including  real life scenarios the author  demonstrates the disadvantages women face by “ playing things cool “ and staying silent. To make themselves appear as a woman that is “easy to please”. With the intent to be more appealing to draw men closer to them.

The chapters of this book reveal the actions that women believe that will make them more like-able. Are the things that make men question the amount of effort they want to devote to you.

“ It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt. “ –   Attraction Principle #6. The desperate urge to be with someone causes women to be nice (settle).  Hence why nice girls get what they can and  “ Bitches” (women with standards ) get what they want. The origin of being a nice girl compared to being a bitch is not rooted in the realm of a woman’s personality. This book is not promoting women to transform from friendly  and pleasant to mean and nasty. 

Nice girls and bitches are both lovable and worthy women.

Both women have the ability to attract men to them. Nice girls and bitches can  attract the same kind of men in their initial interactions. Where things get tricky boils down to the kind of man that these women end up with. It is highly unlikely for a nice girl and a bitch to end up in a relationship with a man that shares the same characteristics. For the simple fact that nice girls and bitches have different mindsets and requirements. Those elements play a factor in the type of connections that they will share with men.

The difference between a nice girl and a bitch is simple.

Nice girls are willing to lose themselves to get or keep a  man. Bitches will lose their chances or get rid of a man to save herself.  Hence why nice girls and bitches end up with different men, which is explained in more detail in the book. Sherry makes straight forward comparisons between nice girls and bitches throughout the book. You will notice nice girls tend to be unfilled in their relationships. While bitches tend to be more fulfilled and happy in their relationships. Sherry demonstrates these comparisons through interviews and client  testimonials to push women to make the adjustments needed to break the cycle. 

 What I like  the most about that book is the author’s ability to instill power onto  women to become the best of themselves. 

Her overall objective is to empower women to work inward to  strengthen their confidence , independence and  emotional intelligence. In the end the Overall essence of increasing the romantic chemistry with a man starts with the way a woman romanticizes herself.  While the tactics that are mentioned in this book are liberating and game changing. The techniques will not be as effective to a woman that has failed to work on the relationship she has with herself. 

Women will spend a lifetime and fortune to discover the ways to attract and keep a man’s attention.

From purchasing books such as this one to get a blueprint of everything there’s to know about men. But when women fail to educate themselves on the bases of self-love/ self worth , Is where the issue lies. You can read this book a million times and remember each technique the author provides. The author’s advice may work for the first few days. It’s only a matter of time before you revert back to your old ways that led you to pick up the book in the first place.  That’s why it’s so important to practice the self empowering methods as much as the relationships techniques.

(Women that are looking to start or enhance Self-Love should look into this Self-Love guide for assistance)

.    I can say that ” Why Men Love Bitches ” was a game changer for me.

As I raised my standards the quality of men began to heighten as well. My taste in men has changed tremendously.  The men that I encountered in my past are men that I no longer have an interest in dating.   With the advice that Sherry provides I have managed to  step in my power by enforcing my boundaries and standards.  This book helped me implement habits that helped me connect with the kind of men that are more caring and romantic. The best part about it is that it didn’t require nearly as much effort as before. 

Why men love bitches is definitely worth adding to your cart.

Very affordable and can be found on amazon. A easy read that is entertaining and filled with gems. That will help you break free from dating inconsistent men. Overall i will say this book is a 10 out of 10. I wont say that this book will guarantee  you to find prince charming right away. But what i can say is that you will make better choices by implementing the advice that the book provides.